For most
people, anxiety is no stranger. It shows up like an uninvited guest. It is a
feeling that can be triggered by circumstances good or bad. So, the question is how can we deal with this feeling
effectively?
Specifically,
anxiety is that uneasy feeling that circumstances, real or perceived, will
spiral out of control. It is a feeling of fear, worry, or uneasiness which is
generalized and unfocused. Anxiety is rooted in fear of the unknown, fed by a
personal sense of inadequacy and a sub-conscious sense of unpreparedness. The
question is, how do I minimize this anxiety?
First,
try to pinpoint the source of your anxiety. Do you have family concerns? Are
you insecure with respect to your job? Do you have uncertainty over your
finances? Are you dreading a doctor's appointment? Do you have the pressure of
a deadline? Is there a rational explanation for what is "eating at
you?" Identifying its source may help you deal with it more effectively.
Second,
understand that the best way to deal with uncertainty is to prepare the best
way you know how. Here are some ways to cope.
1. Plan
your time.
2. Work
off a "to do" list.
3.
Anticipate possible scenarios.
4. Establish
your projected course(s) of action.
5.
Prioritize your work. Do the most important things first. Choose to
minimize unnecessary
distractions.
6.
Remember that the more time you spend planning, the less time will be required
for execution.
Third,
remember that you can trust your unknown future to the known God.
1. He created you.
2. He knows you.
3. He loves you.
4. He wants to bless you.
5. He wants you to be fruitful in
your endeavors.
The
closer you get to God, the less anxiety will adversely affect you! Recall
Jesus' Sermon on the Mount. In Matthew 6:25-34, He addresses the issue of worry
and anxiety. He concludes the matter by promising, "Seek first the Kingdom
of God and His righteousness and all these other things (whatever you need)
will be added to you." Peter said, "Casting all your care on Him
because He cares for you." These promises are for you.
Use your
anxiety or whatever might be causing your anxiety as a springboard to motivate
you to chase after God who does not want you to live as a captive to anxiety.
Thank you, Dr. Sutton, for reminding me of trusting a loving merciful God with my unknown future.
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